Monday, August 31, 2015

Week 2 / Theories Of Development /Journet


      
   In Chapter 2 we are introduced to the many theories of development.  One theory that is considered to be the foundation  of many other theories is Sigmund Freud's Psychoanalytic Theory.  This theory has five stages of development and they are based on wants or needs.  Each stage is named after a pleasure center and is assigned to an age range.(Life Smart 30)
  1.             The Oral Stage(0 to 1.5 years) goal to obtain a certain amount of sucking, eating and biting
  2.             The Anal Stage (1.5 to 3 years) goal to successfully potty train
  3.             The Phallic Stage (3 to 5 years ) goal to develop healthy sexual interest
  4.             The Latency Stage (5 to 12 years) goal to develop physical, intellectual and social skills              while sexual desire is dormant 
  5.             The Genital Stage (12 years and older) Surge of sexual hormones occur.  People look to               establish relationships outside of their immediate family
       This theory is based on wants or needs and if they aren't met aspects of the individual remain in that stage preventing him or her from fully maturing. This theory may lose popularity among some people because it focuses on the sexual instinct of people and it stops at the age of 12.  It implies that people 12 through 99 remain at the Genital Stage.
    
     In my opinion I like the way Erik Erikson Psychosocial Theory is set up.  It has 8 stages that go beyond age 12.  This implies that development continues even at a later age.  This Theory focuses on the impact of social experiences.  Each stage is marked by a life crisis that must be resolved in order to move on. (Life Smart 32).
   
                                            Age                 Stage                       Psychosocial Crisis
      1.              0-2                  Infancy                    Basic Trust Vs. Mistrust
      2.               2-3                 Early childhood       Autonomy Vs. Shame & Doubt
      3.               3-5                 Childhood                Initiative Vs. Guilt
      4.               5-12               Middle Childhood        Industry Vs.Inferiority
      5.               12-18             Adolescence             Identity Vs. Identity Confusion
      6.                18-25            Young Adult            Intimacy Vs. Isolation
      7.                 25-65            Middle Age             Generativity Vs. Stagnation
      8.                65 +              Old Age                  Integrity Vs. Despair       
I can relate to this theory a little better.  I wonder can someone be older in life say 40 years old and still be in Psychosocial Crisis of Identity Vs. Identity Confusion (12-18)  or Intimacy Vs. Isolation (18-25).  In my opinion some may take longer than others to get through a  specific life crisis.
    
    I also enjoyed reading and strongly agree with Maslow's Hierarchy of needs.  There are 5 stages of needs being met and utilized.  I'm hoping the percentage is greater than 2 percent when it comes to the individuals that reach the Self Actualization Stage.  I have seen individuals that get stuck in the first stage where life consists of meeting their most basic of needs like food and shelter. I wonder if it is possible to go though this hierarchy of needs while being able to skip a need like Love.  Can you meet basic needs, feel safe,  not be in love or really connected to some one yet feel good about yourself and reach the point of Self actualization.  Does Love include self Love?  I'm just thinking out loud.  I feel that I may be in the 3rd or 4th stage of this pyramid and hope to reach the point of Self Actualization in my lifetime.



2 comments:

  1. I may be biased but you picked a couple of my favorite theorists. I really enjoy the depth and flexibility Erickson offers in his Theory of Psycho-social Development. However, I also like the "road map" Maslow offers in the quest of self actualization. If you get the chance read about Adler. He believes we always feel inferior and would take exception that a self actualization even existed. We would just eventually want to be "happier".

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  2. I agree with your opinion in Erikson's 8 stages of psychosocial theory, that it may take longer than others to get through a specific life crisis. We hear it all the time, whether from close family members or co-workers. At times they may be going through a dilemma and it seems like an easy solution for us to work through it looking into their situation on the outside but for them its something they may find hard to navigate through and move on.

    I thought your last paragraph was thought provoking. I like your thinking out loud view of love. "Does love include self love?" It made me think of people I know and their situations with love including my own. And my opinion is that self love can be enough to an extent. But I believe we need the extra love; I am not just talking about being in love and in a thriving relationship but love from other sources. Such as:

    Love you get from a pet (I have 2 dogs and their love is so uplifting after a stressful day)

    Love from dear friends (Sometimes they can help navigate life's predicaments)

    Love from parents (I cannot imagine getting through some life events without their ever present love)

    Love from children (I speak from friends who have them and tell me all the time that they can't imagine their life without them)

    Love from wherever, whomever but just as an addition to your own essential self love to help one towards reaching self actualization.

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